What is a friend

What is a friend....I wasn’t really sure I had the right meaning so I went ahead and googled it. The result surprised me...I realized there r many layers to the relation...Different for everyone...For some its someone close to rely on, for others a source to blink away the blue days with, someone who would offer you that shoulder pat away the sorrow, that person with whom you can laugh your head off on no particular matter and also cry on the phone at 3 in the morning. Someone who would watch out for you make you feel safe brush away your insecurities.hes like a security blanket I used o have when I was younger he makes you feel warm and safe. The person who would read underneath the fine print overlook the flaws...I soon realized this broad term can’t really be googled like my science projects, too deep and meaningful a term for software to understand. That is the reason why so many feel the need to comment or write about it because no matter how much you say how much you describe the meaning can’t be penned down exactly .it’s like a river calm and quiet sometimes and fast and ferocious at other times, unpredictable like the weather .every friendship is unique,just like every person is, from friendship we learn something new and valuable you like to have lengthy conversations with some while with others just the presence is enough..it’s a selfless relation, in friendship one gives infinitely without hesitatin.i have searched far and wide but end my discussion with one conclusions at the end of the day a friend is a person who makes you feel good about who you are.

The Fundamental Need Of Life.

The basic and most fundamental need of not just each human being existing on the face of this earth but also of every other living being is,firstly the need for food and shelter.Both animals and plants will first find sufficient food and a viable place to reside in.These are the lowest rungs after which comes the need for love,happiness,companionship and joy.
It is the core of our soul without which our soul will slowly disintergrate,like a flower without water.Maybe,that is the reason romance novels are the highest selling because even if we have'nt found or feel no desire to find our true love our soul is in constant search for it's other half.Everyone has a different way of finding fullfilment some will look for it in their relationships,others will turn to drugs or music anything to fill those gaps in one's soul.It is the basis of your life.When the thirst in your soul is quenched you look for the reason of your existence.
Just like Paulo Coelho says in his book "The Alchemist",everyone has a reason for their existence,a personal legend.This is the highest rung and the most complicated one because it is almost always different for everybody and this search for you is something you have achieve on your own.No one can find it for you.Sure,there will be many to guide you along your path but you yourself have to acheive it.
If all the fundamental needs of life are complete only then can you acheive true happiness.